Thursday, 10 June 2010


LET ME START EDUCATIONALLY....An intimate relationship is a particularly close interpersonal relationship,It can be defined by these characteristics: enduring behavioral interdependence, repeated interactions, emotional attachment, and need for fulfillment.
Intimate relationships play a central role in the overall human experience. Humans have a universal need to belong and to love which is satisfied when an intimate relationship is formed.Intimate relationships consist of the people that we are attracted to, whom we like and love, romantic and sexual relationships, and those whom we marry,provide for,receive emotional and personal support from.
Just like i love good food,i love relationships, the act of falling in love well standing in it is just beautiful but then i don't necessarily have the patience for it(sometimes i want to be left alone and other times i just want to cuddle up, run in the sand together,count the stars and just be in his arms(wherever he is),in as much as i love PDA'S and the romantic getaways and the fact that i expect him to know at every point in time what i want, how and when i want it and is quite worrisome and that has caused some to label me "HIGH MAINTENANCE" but i guess they were not wrong but that was in the PAST OH,PAST EMPHASIZED OH!!!But a girl needs somethings sometimes, i believe if u have been in a relationship for a while you should know what ur girl or guy wants ,i don't think presents are meant for birthdays, valentines day or whatever celebration you consider major, why don't u send her flowers on a Tuesday morning,watch the match with him and actually be interested, talk about the economy and its varieties, follow her to nail studio to get her manicure and pedicure done and you can get yours done as well, holding her while shes saying some very personal stuff that mean so much to her and just letting her know ur there, but then again you don't know whose true r whose isn't but as they say life is worth taking risks for u never know where ur" Mr right" is and his is a statement of fact coined from the proverbial books of Ms Omoyeni Disu... "THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS MR OR MS RIGHT, ITS YOUR IMPERFECTIONS THAT MAKE YOU PERFECT FOR EACH OTHER"....Am still praying to God everyday to make me the woman my husband wants but then in as much as i give God my specifics for a man i tell him always"Lord i want a gift from you"....
I tend to think that if i end up running a relationship advice and consultancy firm,i would be the most reputable in the industry not that am boasting but then i just feel that advices i give are second to none and they have worked for various people so guys ladies if you need advice u know how to contact your favorite blogger...m outta here...xo

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