Wednesday, 23 October 2013


I saw this tweet a few days ago and have being trying to wrap my head round it.

"'Hard work is good but working smart is better"

Does working smart mean not having to do so much, like delegating duties, what exactly??? Please help me shed more light on this.


This is a friends friends story and she needs help as she is quite confused,here goes.

Tola and Lola are good friends, Tola was dating Layo, in between they had issues and broke up amicably. Layo starts chatting with Lola and one thing leads to another and they became close, Layo's asking Lola out and she really isnt sure as she has grown to like him but is also thinking its betrayal on her part to her friend

PS:Note nothing has happened between Lola and Layo before, Obviously Tola is angry because she feels the two were having something before and that her close friend shouldnt date her ex.

Me myself i"m lost to this because its sorta a 2way thing.

Pls give your advice, no absues abeg

Thursday, 17 October 2013


Loly is an extremely beautiful woman. Inside out

Nigerian men arent of this world.

Nigerian men arent of this world i tell you. lol

Disclaimer: Although many people will still ignore this and get mad anyway; I do not mean to indulge in generalities. This is all based on my experience and those of a few friends

 I need to understand why a man would still be depending on mumy and dady at this age(being 30) they say they are chasing contract today,waiting for contract tomorrow this and that i don tire.

You come into an office and tell me you want to be earning 150k monthly with only a B.A in business administration ( i didnt know when i burst out laughing in the interview), no experience, nothing and you want to be earning 150k, when its not as if you went to a babalawo before you came for the interview.

In this lagos you can  rarely have a decent conversation without it going into alcohol or party or girls with a man, almost impossible, have we become so shallow?

Everybody is in the entertainment industry now, you meet one he"ll say his a producer,DJ,artist and the first few minutes of the convo your exhausted.

My dear men are so good with telling you "something is telling me your my wife", "i want to get married in 8 months" no source of income, no business on the side NATHING and you wan marry

Men whatever happened to being hardworking or industrious? you sit your ass home, smoking weed, chasing one music career or acting career that you know is not going anywhere. Whatever happened to trying to workout something, get with a few friends, think up a business plan and implement. It might be hard at first but its worth the trail.

The breed of men this country is churning out these days is just *smh* these are future fathers.

The truth be told, there are fantastic men out there who work hard and have their priorities right, they play hard but work harder but these range rover driving, squatting with mumy and daddy, wake up at 12, check your twitter acount, call one babe up is horrendous. Plix una try and do something ehn.