So I was reading my sermon notes from Rev Mike Cassidy's "Mega singles and relationship conference" and the theme this year was AMINA, which means truthful,trustworthy and it got me thinking,why I'm I in a relationship(not in one oh) or why do I want one?
The truth be told its because I don't want to be alone(yes I know some of you are saying being alone isn't good but sometimes trust me u need ur sanity and yourself back on track,lonesomeness is definitely needed), and I'm wondering Yeni this isn't a good enough reason but sadly its why most people are in relationships. The fear of being alone.
People are in relationships for various reasons:
1. For what they can get from the person(financial,educational,status quo and the rest)
2. It can be as a result of pressure from friends,your friends tell u "babe u don't know what ur missing out on oh"
3. Pressure from yourself,how u feel you'll only be complete if u had someone or the need to just impress family and friends
4.The mind set of "I won't get anyone better" yet the guy/babe is just chopping ur money anyhow,com dey beat u and verbally abuse you on top and yet u still dey dia. Ok! Nothing do u oh
These are just a few I can think of write now but if you know anymore,feel free to share yours and my lovies just so you know "a man/ woman that loves you just because your available doesn't love you"